Let me share something with you that not many know about me. It’s not even like I’ve tried to keep this a secret, but I feel that it doesn’t

My thoughts and prayers continue to go out to those who have lost loved ones due to these types of senseless acts of violence.

If you’re still breathing, God isn’t done with you.

That’s the thing about widowhood – one object/song/memory/thing can be so full of good and so full of pain at the same time.

This may be TMI, but I’ve always had an issue with anyone being able to see me naked.

Let me tell you one I M P O R T A N T life lesson I learned on December 20, 2019. LIFE ISN’T PERFECT.

But now, I’m entering a month of emotional lows that surround my birthday.

So, recently, I had a tarot card reading compliments of a dear friend of mine.

Today, January 20, 2021, marks 13 months since I lost Wes.

Everything about this time of year leaves me feeling grateful for all the good things the year has brought me and I love all the traditions

Is it ironic that the first statement that rang through the darkness when I first processed the idea that I was a widow was ‘Figure It Out’?

I remember thinking to myself, “Do you ever want to spend a day without this guy?” And the answer was immediately, “Absolutely not.”

It has been over 9 months since I lost Wes and I just experienced my first dream of him last night.

No, but really, where the hell did my summer go? Actually, where the hell has 2020 gone?

Let me be the first to say, I’m not a Disney adult. I know this is going to cause major uproar (especially with JGT; I swear you my girl...

One thing I loved about Wes is that he appreciated a good stat just as much as I did.

Every time I talk about Fear Factor, I think about how I’d walk away a big, fat LOSER.

My life revolves around awkward moments.

So, at the time I was tired from tears, hungry for hope, and weary from grief, God made me jump.

Be that person that focuses on protecting someone’s life over an asset.